"Our doubts are traitors
And make us lose the good we oft might win,
By fearing to attempt."
Ever notice that as we get older, we get less bolder,less willing to dream and think big?
When we consider something we want to do or accomplish, almost immediately negative thoughts and doubts pop up that say things like: "Are you nuts, have you forgotten how old you are?"
Or this one: "Like my wife (girlfriend,boyfriend,significant other,etc) would ever put up with that if I....,"
Another common thought, "What are you thinking? Do you really believe you have what it takes?"
I recall a friend who told me that he wanted to do the Ironman Triathlon,almost immediately after saying that he began telling me how it would be almost impossible for him to even qualify.
I suggested he take a look at last year's entrants,their ages and finishing times and then tell me if he still believed it was impossible. I also asked him if he really wanted to do what he said he did.
I suggested he take a look at last year's entrants,their ages and finishing times and then tell me if he still believed it was impossible. I also asked him if he really wanted to do what he said he did.
A year or so later he called and told me he had just completed a Tinman and was confident that he would make it to Hawaii in the not too distant future.
You've read it here before,the key to personal success is perseverance.
Obviously, if you are of limited talent,toeing the line at the U.S.Olympic Marathon Trials is unlikely,but, you can achieve much more than you think you can if you commit yourself and reject those doubts. I never want to hear myself say, "I just wish I would have given it a shot."
What an empty,crappy feeling to have to live with.
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